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What Do You Want To Be?

What do you want to be when you grow up? 

It's a question that puzzled me since I was a toddler, back then I wanted to be a teacher. 

Growing up I changed my mind all the time, one moment I would love to be a doctor and the other I wanted to be an artist.

I went through the phase where  I gave up and just wanted to be jobless and watch TV all day and night and be on the internet but now I just want to do something I love.

What do your parents expect you to be?  

All parents want their child to grow up to be really successful. Sometimes they want their child to be like them in order to continue the family's legacy. Some parents actually push their child to the maximum just to get what they want and see their child where they wanted them to be, regardless of their child's own dreams.

BUT is this the way to go?

What do YOU want to be?

You have to decide for yourself. In order to be successful in your field you have to love your job because  what if you do something your not interested in?  Nothing would be accomplished and you won't develop in what your doing!  

Be what YOU want to be whether it's to be a doctor or a geologist it's all up to you !!

                                                                                                                   

Future job

People always ask me "What do you want to be when you grow up" and I never know the answer.
This question always puzzled me, now more than ever.

"What do I want to be?" I'm close to finishing IGCSE and still not sure.
people expect me to be something that I'm not sure I want to be, even my parents expect me to be something that I don't want to be.

"What am I going to do with my life?" That question keeps coming up and yet I have no answer  and that really scares me.

When I was younger, I wanted to do something that would change the world for the better, something that would make the world a better place. But eventually that idea became far-fetched. Now all I want to do in life is be content. Find a stable job, earn enough to live a comfortable life, enough to support my family. Sure I still have the hope and ambition to do something great in life, but in the process I don't want to lose focus on living my life, getting married and raising kids, watching them meet someone and have kids of their own. I want my life to be prosperous, no matter my profession.

So right now, I'm not saying I don't want a job or that I'll settle with any job. But there's no point in having a job if I don't have anyone to provide for.

Conclusion is, I don't know what I want to do yet, but at the same time I know what I need that job for, and right now we're still young. We have time to decide, so never rush things, because it will come to you. All we have to do is do our best and wait for the results.

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LOVE

Lets talk about one of the most discussed topics there is - Love.

I'm pretty sure every girl dreams about her price charming, either because of hormones- because, you know, some guys are just so hot- or because we all want our happily ever after.

I personally have no Idea what love actually is. I've only ever experienced familial love or friendly affection. Although I do have a theory because eventually all types of love are similar in that aspect. I don't think love at first sight exists. That's probably attraction, because honestly why doesn't a person fall in love with an ugly or plain person at first sight?. Love could be caused by increasing affection, like when people fall in love with someone they never met...due to all the stories they hear about that person, that causes increasing affection by each new story told. Or maybe when you keep seeing the person and they stay in your mind until they become a habit.  Everyone knows habits die hard. Its not easy to forget someone you see everyday, someone you have affection for. So eventually when it hurts to even think of life without that person, it could be called love. I didn't say you cant live without they person...because you only ever need yourself to survive, but it just hurts to leave them.

Everyone deserves love, not just the type between a husband and wife but one between parents and their child, between friends and siblings. I think everyone finds love, they just have to keep their eyes,  mind and heart open.

That was probably the cheesiest thing I ever wrote. 😆😅✌

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"People are more than what can be perceived from the outside. People are a mix of experience, memories and the influence of others around them.."

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15 is a Scary Number

                 

This year has passed its midpoint- by two months. All I can think about is how my time as a 15 year old is ticking away- and the thought that when January comes around I'll have nothing to show for it. Being 15 feels like a freshly cut wound. Its big, and bloody, and you’re afraid to go near it and although your sure it’ll heal, this feeling of uncertainty and: ‘how  long will it take?’ ‘how will the scar look like?’ ‘will I like it?’ ‘will I like the me with the scare or will I wish to have stayed with the gash?’- its scary and yet...

Being 15 is so full of possibility that its suffocating. You’re filled with ideas that are so big it feels like all mankind will drown in them the moment you open your mouth but when you try to put feelings into words- all that comes out is- a desert. Dry of any of the magic you spent nights creating. It’s this feeling of ‘I’m old enough to effect the things around me- but I’m too young to actually make a difference’. Who will listen to me? Humor my ideas- give me a chance?

What can you do to have the confidence you need?

I don’t know.

I’m still figuring it out myself.

But I find it helps to remember the 9 year old me and how much she looked up to 15 year old her. She’d be brave. A leader. She has an opinion and isn’t afraid to say it. She’s everything and all I ever wanted- she’s not me. But…one day she will be. I know  I’ll be someone 9 year old me would be proud of. The lesson I’m learning lately is: the trick is to be patient with yourself- even if you want to push yourself in the face sometimes.

 Oh if only you can pre-order talent and skill on Amazon!

What do you think? How were you’re teenage years? Are you still a teenager, how’s that been like so far? Share your story like I’ve shared mine.

-Nadine

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